Really well done! I'm working on my own DIY mintyPis and I was wondering if you could solder directly to the flex cable on those since the PCB it comes on doesn't fit. I was wondering how else to pull off the button PCB. I've been using old graphing calculators and copper tape which is super hit or miss.
I was also having issues with the wiring, especially for the screen since the non-flex cable doesn't like, well, flexing...

I ended up taking an old 80 pin CD drive ribbon cable and split it into 9 wire strands. It worked well for me but I'm using it on 2.2" screens wired to the PCB not to the screen itself.
All that said, I totally agree. Tons of work and frustration trying to do this without Helder's parts, and I never would have figured it out if it wasn't for all the great info they post.